I can’t tell you how many people I talk to that once they find out what I do for a living, or what I teach others, they tell me all sorts of “I wish” statements….
Wishing they could get the courage to leave their boring soul-sucking jobs to pursue a career doing something they love while helping others to discover themselves and heal. They crave being able to play with crystals or work with energy in some form as a way to make a good living & manifest their greatest dreams.
Yet…they find themselves struggling to earn enough to make ends meet.
At first they assume there just isn’t a market for what they do or they don’t like pushing what they do…makes them feel “icky” so, the result? They aren’t making enough sales to pay the bills, let alone feel fulfilled & happy.
So we dig a bit deeper.
And what we really find is that something is actually there in the way, blocking them from achieving their BIG DREAMS. When I ask them what’s holding them back, it’s always the same response.
It’s fear.
A fear of various things…but fear is the basis of it all:
- Sometimes it’s fear of what others may think.
- Sometimes it’s fear of not being good enough.
- Sometimes it’s a fear around charging MONEY for energy healing services. Oh yes…that’s a BIG ONE in our community. I hear that 1 over & over again. This particular topic is so big that I decided to break this blog post into 2 parts and address this one separately in Part 2…so stay tuned in for that one!
- And, finally, often…it’s a fear that we won’t be able to reliably financially provide for ourselves. That’s the topic I’m going to cover in this blog post.
Let’s get Real
Now I’m not one of those people who tell you to have faith that you can fly & then blindly leap out the window. No way. I’m a freakin’ Capricorn & way too practical & logical minded for that shit! I never condone leaving a reliable paycheck that allows you to stay safely sheltered & fed until I know that you’re on solid financial footing.
Sorry to burst your rainbow-filled dream of jumping in with 2 feet & having faith in the angels that the Universe will catch you. I do believe the Universe and Source Energy DO CONSPIRE to align everything just so for us IF we also put in the effort & show up to do the work…sending clear communication to Source that we are serious about this & willing to co-create.
That’s how I did it. I refused to leave my public school teaching job until I was successful in my biz for a good solid 6 months so I knew that it wasn’t a one-off fluke. I know, I know…how unromantic. But that’s just how I roll: SAFE + SOUND.
Sometimes I see crystal healers and energy workers following some solid marketing advice, but getting nowhere b/c they’re not realizing that they’re marketing to the WRONG people. I feel heart-broken for them…I see them frustrated that people aren’t open-minded enough to try out their services. They’re working so hard, spinning their wheels… but getting nowhere. You can’t just assume that you’ll start out selling your services to everyone you know and then your biz will spread by word of mouth living on positive energy alone. The reality is there are some subtle nuances to this metaphysical biz thing that may not apply to other areas of business.
Leveraging Your Time?
The other thing that greatly hinders energy healers in our community from doing well is that they may stubbornly cling to the idea of only working with people face to face, one on one in their local area: trading their hours for dollars. Unless you hold a healthy value on your time & charge higher hourly rates (which some people do but you have to work your way up to that)…this will most likely be a recipe for burn out and then failure.
It’s all great to book yourself with back to back healings, but at the same time we don’t want to burn you out. And even if you could do that sustainably, there’s a point where you’re going to max out your earnings. What do you do then?
I see way too many in our community struggling and it kills me…b/c it just doesn’t need to be that way. We just need to change our perspective on it. I’m using this blog post to give some solid steps to take in the right direction.
This is all DO-ABLE~!
I know it is b/c I’ve done it and I’ve shown so many others how to successfully do it too!
LAYER IT UP
My students in my Certified Crystal Healer Course know about the concept of layering on the vibrational energies. This has been a concept in my curriculum for years now and I apply it to my Sacred Biz as well.
Only with biz, I utilize the internet to layer in the various ways we can earn an income. And it allows me to share my work with a global community! We’ve had 1000’s of graduates and done business with them in over 38 countries all over Mama Earth!♥
Learn to leverage yourself, Baby.
It’s about no longer trading your precious hours for dollars.
It’s about layering in more passive income to your mix, diversifying multiple streams of income & honoring your precious energy. Using the magic of the internet, thank goodness, we no longer need to run our businesses solely trading our most precious commodity; our time…our limited hours for dollars. You get to leverage your time & mix it up in lots of fun ways!
This is the road to sacred success.
Layering Ideas
Some of the business I do is considered “passive income”; for instance the digital products I create…yes, there is very active work done on them upfront. But then they’re packaged up in a digital format that can be purchased and auto-delivered online. I hesitate to use the term “passive” because it’s never really “set it & forget it”. Customer service is always required for the life of the product as well as periodic updates, but you get the idea…it allows me to greatly leverage my time. Here are my current digital products as an example. I have 4 of them (listed at the top of the page).
So whatever type of energy healing you do or things that you may teach or things that you may sell, ask your community (Facebook is great for this)…what would they like to dive into, learn more about? Then you can create a product around that topic. I’m always asking my community what they’d like to learn more about. Then I round-up the responses that really light me up & I go from there.
Here are a few more ways you can do this…
- Offer an online workshop. There are many ways & platforms to do this but Google Hangouts is free & very easy to use. I found out that my audience really wanted to learn more about Sacred Geometry and its relationship to Crystals so I put together a PowerPoint, with a curriculum, props & included interactive methods that I had practiced and info I had discovered, and it took me about 3 hours total to teach the content. I scheduled 3 workshops to be delivered live via Google Hangouts over a 3 week period. Then I had the whole thing recorded & transcribed, put together some class resources that complimented the material & now I offer it as a digital product for $197. Yeah, I could teach this workshop live over & over again at a local metaphysical shop as I’ve been asked to do… but I won’t. WHY? B/c I value my work/life balance too much. ♥ I’ve chosen instead to offer it in this way… and you know what? It’s WAY BETTER than what I would do in person b/c in offering it this way, I’m also giving the student way more bells & whistles with it: transcripts, audios, meditation mp3, posters, resources… you get the idea. I did the work once and now it’s delivered to many; wherever & whenever they want it to an unlimited number of people; serving all over the planet. It benefits all involved! Way better deal. 🙂
- Be an affiliate for products that you use and whole-heartedly believe in. ♥ This is a great stream of “passive” residual income for me. I do this for BioMat and doTERRA Essential Oils and it’s 1 of the best biz-decisions I ever made! I also do this with essential oils and now sell doTERRA Essential Oils.
- I used to do Crystal Consultations and/or Crystal Readings via Skype that included crystal suggestions that I could sell to the client (you can include other things here like essences, other services, essential oils, etc.) These sessions can also be sold as a mandatory package of 4 so it’s more beneficial to the client, you can go deeper without overwhelming them and earns more income for you. You can also include the recording of these. I don’t recommend doing these as an email consult as that just takes up too much time.
It’s no longer you against the big biz Goliaths.
Plus, the wonderful thing about being an energy healer or lightworker is there really are no big-biz-Goliaths among us, are there?
The internet has completely leveled the playing field.
If you aren’t scared of putting in some hard work to create a strong foundation upfront (yet I don’t condone hustling or sacrificing your work/life balance) and you’re committed to being consistent you can get there…and BEYOND!
PHYSICAL SPACE?
I also see many getting really excited to open up a physical brick n’ mortar space; whether it be to conduct healing sessions or to sell goods or services or all of the above. I have to admit, it’s very tempting to create a special sacred space outside of our homes to decorate just like the vision we see in our dreams; a sanctuary that those in our community can retreat to. Sounds like so much fun, right?
But the reality is that taking this path can be very expensive. And again, just as I said at the beginning of this post … I feel strongly that you don’t leave your day job until you have steady reliable income coming from your spiritual biz. I say the same for opening up a physical space.
I’ve done it all…and done it all successfully since 2009 (Yeah there have been some failures along the way, but I’ve always learned & applied lessons from them) … and never once did I have a commercial physical space…so it can be done.
Sure, I could have done it. I was asked to many times…and it was tempting.
But I know from speaking to other biz owners; IT’S NOT AN EASY PATH. I had my vision for what I wanted my sacred crystal biz to be firmly in place & I always knew I wanted to take what I did online… and keep it there. (I think that may be due to my introvert tendencies…but it works whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert!)
I’m not saying to NEVER take it to a physical space…just to do it slowly and smart!
CONSISTENCY
Another thing I see missing when I see a holistic biz-failure is that there was one main ingredient missing: consistency.
Perhaps they:
- started up a newsletter
- and sent it every 2 weeks
- then it became sporadic
- and then it came out only when they remembered to do it
- and then no one is opening it up
- and then they remember to send out another one 4 months later
- and then a whole ton of people unsubscribe from it b/ they’ve forgotten who the heck this person even is!
You’ll need to be committed & disciplined to do the work consistently if you want to see the results.
Here’s a question to ask yourself:
How serious are you about contributing in a deep & significant way to your sacred biz growth?
Consistency establishes your reputation and makes your clients TRUST you.
You can’t establish a trust-worthy track record with your clients or followers if you’re constantly dropping the ball, skipping this or that you’d said you’d do, consistently changing your biz name or focus.
They’ll think: “FLAKE!” and move on to someone else to trade their hard-earned dollars with.
Can you blame them?
I’ve been in biz with my company, Hibiscus Moon, LLC for 8 years now. I left my full-time teaching job mid way through 2012 b/c my sacred crystal biz was already super-successful.
If you want to learn more about how to be successful in your energy healer biz, I share it all; everything I’ve learned over my last 8 years and included it FREE in the Professional Level of my Certified Crystal Healer course! Registration is now open for our Fall 2017 term, but please know that space is LIMITED at this level. Once we’re full I’ll be closing that up. CLICK HERE if you’d like to find out more.
I have lots more to say on this topic so there will be a Part 2 to this coming down the pike later. (In Part 2 of this blog post I’ll share more about another common pitfall of our community; under-valuing & under-charging.) Keep an eye for that if this is your gig. And please comment below with your ideas or opinions, questions or ideas on anything I’ve said above! Love to hear what you have to say. 🙂
~Hibiscus Moon
Hi HB,
The biggest problems I see are 3 fold.
1). lot of people are not tech savvy, especially in this field. They are not teenie bobbers coming fresh out of high school or uni. We need to educate people on how to be tech savvy.
2). Fear itself, for a myriad of reason! I know lots of people who want to start their businesses up and then the twisted red snake rears its ugly head, and all of a sudden its ‘to hard’, I’m scared I won’t make any money.
3). Possibly for a lot of people, they are doing it by themselves without any support. They don’t have family to rely, and asking friends is just too hard. Add kids to the mix and its all over Red Rover.
I wish I could just hug those people and tell them it will all be okay if they only have faith in themselves and maybe held onto a citrine pointer.. for dear life!
Thanks Stephanie, I love your work. Have a great day.
((HUGS)) right back Mira! I hope this series helps with some of that.
I like. ????????.. Do I should I.. Can I be bothered.. Why does the uneverse keep saying do it.. ????
wow.
this blog was exactly what i needed to hear right now. i have always been drawn to crystals and loved the CCH course! (however, i am still not sure what i am DOING with the training.) i know i am being lead to open a brick and mortar (for something else) and had a dream that i set up a table in the back of the shop for reiki and crystal healing clients.
mira’s comments at the top struck a chord too. FEAR is a very tangible thing. and having support (or cheerleaders) for when i stumble or doubt myself is needed.
i will accept those hugs!! and citrine is becoming my “bff”
So glad there are more techno “un savvies” out there. Thats my biggest fear about starting an online business, not sure if I can keep up with technology!
Jan, the nice thing is that techn. is getting easier & easier all the time for us un-techies. 😉
Great info. I’m looking forward to part 2!
Tech is something I’ve struggled with, but have made friends with 🙂 I built my website and maintain it myself. YouTube is a great resource for tech videos.
My biggest issue with the online side of a business is making it feel ‘real’. Not sure how to address that one!
I have a problem with the ekit, I’m on an iPad, is that the problem? It downloads but I can’t save it for later and I just have to go to bed! Work tomorrow. It’s their iPad too! I can keep the page open but…
Love what you are saying here! I have been self-employed for 29 years, most of those out of my house. I do accounting and now I’m doing it fairly remote. I have tried the external office and it is just more costly. I have also watched MANY companies come and go, your are spot on when mentioning CONSISTENCY.
I always feel more confident after reading the information you provide. I am still exploring crystals and unfortunately I don’t have any where I can set up a sacred space. I mostly work with angels and believe the crystals could be incorporated with this. Fear has held me back for a long time but have began a blog to get my feet wet. I read Oracle cards and of course people think this should be free I am also an empath and folks don’t realize how draining this can be depending on their emotional state when they request a reading so I do think it is acceptable to charge for my service
My problem is the area in which I live. No one wants to know about Reiki. I mention it, they move on to another subject as if I never said anything. It’s hard.
I am on the verge of starting my crystal business and am sooooo excited, this blog was awesome!! My question is how and what do I really need with regards to stock? I have a rough idea of what id like to sell but its the quantities that I’m struggling with!! Any ideas xx bright blessings xx
Hello well I just wanna share I can heal anyone via touch where he or she having pain or via phone call I never take any classes for that it’s just gifted someone having bad energy I can take that to. I’ve heal many people it just I never changed them. But sometimes I think I should start charging at least I can pay my bills and many things. And don’t know how I can tell people that I can do many things I can help u if ur having pain your body weather ur having it from many years. Hope you reply. Thanks
Hi Himanchu, I’m happy to read you do healings for people. Why don’t you charge?
Why do you feel it’s not worth charging?
I know your gift was ‘given’ to you but you don’t know the lifetimes you may have spent training in order to get that gift in this life or the amount of work your grandmothers did to pass it on to you.
It’s sacred to be able to heal. It should be something we respect and trade money for.
Also, think of charging what it’s worth to them to receive the healing.
If they no longer have the pain can they go back to work?
Can they make food again?
isn’t that worth it to them? $250? $2000?
Also, make sure to keep testimonials and case studies of the healings you’ve done.
Alixe K. Tracey –
welcome… I want to ask you .. I can activate and charge people’s chakras and treat depression and introversion Constant headaches and sudden convulsions, all from afar. How do I benefit financially from providing these services to people?! Thanks ..
Hi would like more information from you with advice on starting Reiki business ; not bricks and mortar on my list ;